I feel like such a bitch

So what do you do: You are in a job that you dispise, but you have a decent work schedule and you have weekends off. Previously your significant other didn't have the same work schedule as you and there were many boring nights and weekends......understandably a new job would be GREAT, there is no doubt about that but what if you were putting yourself back in the situation you were in before? Do you want to sacrifice time with the one that you like being with, your weekends, your not being alone for a different job? I am having a hard time understanding that. I am miserable too, but I like the weekends.....those are the best times.