Leave well enough alone.....

I remember the day I found out I was divorced January 10th 2007....I filed for separation 12/2005 so it was a long process that took a lot out of me emotionally. Emotionally only because of my daughter, I didn't want anything to happen to her and I didn't want him to get her.
Divorce should be a time of rejoice and celebration that you get to start off a new life without the person that you obviously were not supposed to be with.

SO WHY CAN'T SOME PEOPLE JUST MOVE ON!

My ex tormented me for MONTHS, 100 phone calls a day (literally) yelling at me for various things, wanting money b/c he didn't have a job and somehow felt that I should still be supporting him.....um, get a job fucker. Our whole marriage was based on feelings that, looking back, were false. I believe that I married him because we had a daughter together and growing up, that was the right thing to do. I settled, I shouldn't have...no-one ever should. Especially when it come to love. You can have relationships, but you shouldn't get married unless you know beyond a shadow of a doubt that this is the person for you.

So with that, if you are divorced, even if the person hurt you in some way......take this as an opportunity to MOVE ON and get over that person....go out and find THE ONE you are supposed to be with....your true love....not the one you settled for.

good day-